12 Days of Blogging – Day 9 | Being a Better Person

12 Days of Blogging – Day 9 | Being a Better Person

I wouldn’t say I’m a bad person; I try and do the best that I can to be good.  However, I could be a better person… most of us could be better people.  So, this year, I’m going to make more of an active effort to be a better person, and I’ve set some loose “goals” to do that.

I want to be more charitable.  I used to be really passionate about helping charities and I want to do more of that, but locally.  I want to donate to food banks and clothing shelters and give back to people.  I suppose that this mainly stems from my goal to be less wastefulat the moment, but yeah.  Sometimes I think about how much I have in comparison to some people that have nothing, and I’d love to do more to help that, so more donating it is.

I want to support others more.  In the last year I’ve interacted with so many bloggers, artists, Youtubers and small businesses that are trying so hard to set off.  I notice how much work they put into what they’re doing and really appreciate it, and I want to do more to support these people.  Whether this is clicking on their ads, using their affiliate links, or just occasionally shouting them out and promoting them I’m going to do that.  We’re all trying to make it, so we may as well help each other get there. 

I want to be more complimentary.  I wrote in the lessons learnt from 2017 that a compliment can go a long way.  Honestly, random compliments and likes from people that I barely talk to/don’t talk to at all have the ability to make my day.  Nobody’s going to think you’re weird for giving a (non-creepy) compliment, and if they do then they’re the weird one.  I want to be able to spread more kindness this year and hopefully contribute to more people’s smiles.

So far, those three things are all I have, but if I can keep those three up I reckon I’ll be at least a little bit better than I am now.  In 2017 I learnt how to focus on me and do what makes me happy, and now I can do that to the extent where I can (hopefully) maintain that whilst helping out others.  Although to some, these things may seem really little, together they can at least try to make a difference.  
Like I said at the beginning, I’ve never been a bad person.  However, there are so many people in this world and we’re all living here together, we could always do more to help others have a better time, even if it’s only for a short moment.  Life’s short, and I like to make other people smile (So I guess that this is a little bit selfish…) so I want to get better at doing that.
Are you doing anything different this 2018? Let me know down below!
Lots of love,
Jas xx



  1. January 2, 2018 / 12:15 pm

    These are lovely goals to have, We often forget how a simple compliment can make such a huge difference to a person. I wish you every success in achieving your goals 🙂

  2. January 2, 2018 / 12:37 pm

    Yes, life is short indeed. I have several goals to achieve this year starts from maintaining my emotion, helping my kids to learn Quran better and I’m thinking about my mother. I think I should contact her more often as she will be 68 this year. I feel like my time with her is getting less.
    Do charity is also thing that I want to do more this year.

    • January 2, 2018 / 12:40 pm

      Good luck with your goals! Similarly, im trying to talk to my grandparents more. Hope you achieve your goals in 2018!
      Jas xx

  3. January 2, 2018 / 3:56 pm

    This post was really motivating. I would definitely like to give more and to stop having a receive and take mentality. Also something really hard for me is I know I need to love my family more, like be more of a family person, which is difficult at times lol.
    Nikki O.

    • January 2, 2018 / 3:58 pm

      Awww Im glad you found it motivating! Im really focusing on the giving at the moment. Good luck with your family!
      Jas xx

  4. January 30, 2018 / 7:33 pm

    These are such lovely goals to set for yourself Jasmine!! This is such a good mindset to have; I’d like to focus on being more positive overall! Xxx

    • January 30, 2018 / 7:38 pm

      Awww thank you Hebah! Being positive is so important!
      Jas xx

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